Pen pal guides
A good correspondence starts with a few choices: what to write, who you hope to meet, and how you want to exchange letters. Start with the question closest to yours.
How to write a pen pal letter
From a blank page to a first hello, with an example you can make your own.
Pen pals for adults
An adult guide to finding a pen friend and keeping a correspondence comfortable.
English pen pals
Make English writing practice a conversation, with examples for different levels.
Online pen pals vs snail mail
Compare the practical differences before you choose how to exchange letters.
Writing tools and next steps
- Letter templates
- Choose a structure for a first introduction or an ongoing exchange.
- Conversation starters
- Find a question that invites a story, from first hellos to familiar friendships.
- Language-exchange questions
- Pick a topic for a writing partner and compare everyday language and culture.
- Pen-pal app comparison
- Compare different matching models, costs, and conversation styles.
How these guides relate to Slowletter
These guides are written by the Slowletter team. Examples are original practice texts, not member testimonials. Slowletter is a digital, letter-first service: an eligible recipient can accept or pass on your introduction, and acceptance opens private chat. It is free to join; introductory letters use credits, and matching or replies are not guaranteed.